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Titration

Titration is meeting a big feeling in small amounts - the edge of it, then pause, then come back. Flooding tends not to integrate; small doses do. It is similar to the principle behind gradual exposure, applied gently to internal states.

Plain-language definition

Titration is a somatic principle of working with intensity in small, manageable doses, paired with pauses or contact with something neutral. Nervous-system states are complex and individual. This is orientation, not diagnosis.

How it may feel in the body
  • a feeling that feels too big to be with all at once
  • the relief of stepping back, even briefly
  • the difference between the whole wave and a small edge of it
Common thoughts or urges
  • 'I should be able to handle this'
  • urge to push through and feel the whole thing
  • urge to shove it down and skip it
Why the body might do this

When intensity exceeds what the system can metabolize, it can flood - and flooding rarely produces integration. Smaller doses with real pauses let the body register that the feeling is approachable, which is a different lesson than 'this is unbearable.'

What usually doesn't help
  • trying to 'feel all of it' to get it over with
  • shaming yourself for taking small doses
What may help
  • name just the edge of the feeling
  • pause and orient to something neutral
  • come back later, in another small dose
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